From My Friend Sarah....Thanks.

Written to me when I needed a friend....posted with her permission.....

You haven't found a great guy yet because there are so few of them out there. And yeah, I know that sucks.... but maybe think of it this way:

You're a beautiful bird.

He's a slug.

There are 1,000,000 slugs to every bird (for the sake of a number)

If you keep looking at the ground and think"all those slugs""they all have other slugs" "but I don't have another bird"

"why is that OK? why do slugs have one another and I don't have another bird?"

If you were willing to settle for a slug, you'd have 999,999 to choose from.

But you're not.

You're waitin' on your bird.

And he comes when he comes, because he's probably busy building his nest and puttin' all sortsa nifty stuff around it to entice you when he comes flyin' over to find you.

Or, he's married to a slug and doesn't yet have the balls to squish her and get it over with.

Or he's not yet ready for you.

But there are so FEW of them out there..

in relation to your ex, "why does he get what he wants", well, YOU could have it too if you were willing to settle for a slug!

(credit for the drawing goes to http://fineartamerica.com/images-medium/broken-heart-cheryl-shibley.jpg )